Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Busy me: Just another tough week


It had been another busy week for me, and it seems like a roller coaster ride a lot of ups and downs. My apologies to my delayed comments on your blogs but though I tried to take every available time to visit your blogs. There’s so much to tell so I think we better get started.
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It all begun with the first misfortune of the week, our computer collapsed and we can do nothing about it. We think it has something to do with the hard drive so therefore no internet for several days and I’m pissed of by that we want to have it fixed but time is just too short for us.
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My girlfriend paid me a visit, at first I thought it was the happiest day of the week but when the night comes I was pissed off by what she have done or maybe should I say what she did not do. I don’t purchase load for my phone except for some emergencies well perhaps it was  just to prevent her empty doubts beside she calls me every night. But this past few weeks the calls were lessen even the conversations got shortened which I understand, I don’t want to take all of her time anyways. But on that day she visited me, she leave to go back home I expected her to call me as soon as she made it as she always does but there’s none even a single text message. The next morning still there no call or message from her I was worried of course. I checked my facebook just to be sure if she dropped some message but still there is none. Later around 9 pm she finally called but just to say that she’s on her way home she said she hanged out with some friends. It was a short conversation because she her phone have few charge left she assured me she’s gonna call again which she did but just to say good night. And up until now there is no apologies though she knew I was mad about it. To be honest I wasn’t feelin good regarding our relationship but I knew for a fact that I still love her so much that I can’t afford to lose her. Well I guess relationship and love  isn’t about being happy after all.
(Me and my Godparents)
Me and my cousin Blue and Mirasol registered for the sacrament of confirmation or “ kumpil”   a month ago and have attended seminars for several Sundays as it was a requirement for the said event. Friday night was our schedule for the “kumpisal” or confession. And then we rehearsed for the event the next morning it took us four hours to get it done. I think all of the candidates were more than a hundred. Then lastly Sunday afternoon was for the actual event, it was lead by the bishop of our sector the ceremony went well and the whole event was so solemn. After the sacrament of confirmation it feels like ten steps closer to god.
(My niece Jessica- photo from my cousin)
(my other nieces and nephews)
We also have attended my niece’s birthday. I took care of her back then when she was still a toddler but now she just turned seven. The party was really cute the theme was Disney princesses, The food as well were pretty good. We had fun watching programs such as 7 roses, candles etc just like how traditional debut is.
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Throughout this series of event I surprisingly I have finished reading a book the first book I have ever read. Well it was “Lorien Legacies-I am Number Four “ a pretty easy to read book. Though I have seen the movie I find reading it’s book better and I understand the whole story even more. Reading it seems like being in the actual event that was happening ,you can see the images describe on the book clearly and you can feel as the main character feels as if you were one which I think the best thing a book can do. Now I was looking forward to read the next book my cousin blue has his copy of “the rise of nine” but of course I have to read “the power of six” first. Can anyone lend me a copy? haha


Everything seems back to normal though there are still some events to attend and things has to be done but one thing is for sure I’ll keep in touch ;).











61 comments:

  1. Wow, indeed you've had lots this past week. Carry on! BTW, I'll focus on your relationship with your GF (pakialamero lang haha)...hmmmm..just a short advice from a happy man in a happy r'ship. I'd say that love is not based on feelings because feelings fades overtime. For me love is synonymous with "commitment" that no matter how far you've gone in arguments still at the end of the day, you will end up re-assuring and re-affirming your commitment to her. And petty misunderstandings should be worked out by both of you because it takes two to tango. There are bad days, it's normal but always reckon to the good things each of you possess. Do not dwell on the misgivings and negativity. Ang haba na nito hehehe. Hope it helps.

    Regarding kumpil, I remember when I did it because I'm way too old since I wasn't able to do it when I was in my grade school. I don't know the clear reason why I missed it way back then. Anyhow, have a nice day and carry on. Just remember that when the going gets tough, tough people rises to the occasion. Stay blessed.

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    1. Pareng Mecoy, the party will be on Dec. 7 (Friday here). Too bad you're so distant away to be invited. Blogger's meet up nalang sa Feb. BTW, I am expecting your entry. Those books at stake for prizes are "must and best reads" so join in ha.

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    2. makiki-ride ako dito sa comment ni JJ - I agree about the commitment.

      @Juicy Jay about sa kumpil pareho tayo, I was 18 when I had my confirmation so I remember well na ako ang pinaka-matanda sa group LOL. Good thing was, I was with my high school friend so dalawa kaming ganun ang eksena lol.

      I suspect the reason for my late confirmation was that, I'm the youngest in the family and di ba our parents need to wait to be 11 yrs old at least? (back then it was 7 I think), so tingin ko na-overlook na ng parents ko dahil sa mga gastos sa mga kapatid kong nag college na ha ha

      @MEcoy
      being busy is good for the brain - there's no space for evil in a busy mind :)
      take it easy with your gf ;)

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    3. Totally agree with JJ. Though I haven't been on that kind of shoes yet. Maybe love is really a decision. And it's a test to be firm to stick on whatever decision has been made.

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  2. Way to go on I Am Number Four! Get The Power of Six na, if you want a copy of the PDF i can send it to you. Is your computer okay na?

    Hindi pa ako nakukumpilan. pak!

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  3. looks like a long week mecoy. hayaan mo na muna yung gf mo ;-) chill ka lang. bigyan mo sya ng space. ma mimiss ka rin non. cute ng pamangkin mo. hey penge naman ng pdf ng book. hehehe. email mo kung payag ka.

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  4. Hi! It has been a long time na hindi ka naka blog...hehe anyway, talk to her about it, i'm sure may reason yan...:) sure you love her so much, but its not just about loving, it is also about making choices...pak!! ung lang...hahaha My housemate has the power of six book, and he loved it....you should purchase one...hihi...:0)


    xx!

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  5. let's work hard on the relationship :) if you have faith in it, it will bloom beautifully

    Latest: Baby White is Camera Shy!

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  6. it's part of being in a relationship parekoy....., baka naman nahiya lang siya sayo kaya di na nya binobrought up..., hemingway...sheer up...at least you have a girl to love unlike me, Mr.lonely haha

    :)

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  7. Hindi ko alam kung paano na ang life ko dito sa ibang bansa kung walang PC at net. Baka namatay nako sa homesick. lol.

    Regarding sa relationship with GF pag-usapan nyo siguro kung papaano maibabalik yung fire nyo sa isa't-isa. Baka nawawala na yung spark o kailangan nyo mag-getaway. Sana maging masaya pa ang pagsasama nyo. :)

    Belated Happy birthday to ur niece :)

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    1. naks... okay ang advice ah.. may "sparks" ka pang nalalaman hehehe --- pero tama ka diyan ^___^

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    2. oo nga eh. baka magka spark, spark plugs :D

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  8. Siguro, kuya, medyo nagsasawa na yung girlfriend mo, napapagod? kaya nagla-lie low muna sa relationship niyo... nagpapalamig.
    cool off? :P

    Okay lang 'yan, kailangan din ang ganyan paminsan-minsan para makapag-self reflect.
    Hayaan mo lang na ganyan siya, baka napapagisip-isip siya tungkol sa relationship niyo at kailangan niya ng time para sa sarili niya.

    Pwede rin namang, may pinagdadaanan siya, try mo siyang tanungin kung may problema ba siya kung may maitutulong ka...

    Dami pwedeng dahilan.
    Hehe.

    So..
    Dun talaga ako nag-concentrate sa relasyon niyo.
    HAHAHA.

    BTW,
    Nasa to-read list ko yung I am number 4. :P

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  9. About sa GF -- minsan darating ung time na mararamdaman mo na nilalamig na sayo ang mahal mo.. un bang nababawasan ang paglalambing o mga messages... pero sa other side baka iyon na ang senyales na dapat mas magbigay ka ng oras sa kanya.. baka may problema din siya sayo... tama nga na mag-usap muna kayo...

    Give and take lang... baka kasi nagsawa na siya na lagi na lang siya ang madalas na nagpapadala ng mga messages... o baka naman pareho lang kayo ng problema -- gusto niya ikaw naman ang mag message ng madalas sa kanya...

    O baka nagsasawa na siya sa mga ginagawa niya -- katulad ng pag call sayo gabi gabi (sabi mo nga nabawasan na)--

    Dun naman tayo sa kumpil... naalala ko lang ung nag kumpil ako... masarap din sa pakiramdam... un nga lang sa panahong un di ko alam kung ano ba talaga ang kumpil hehehe bata pa yata ako nun...

    Sana maging okay ang lahat sayo ^_^

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  10. Lagi kang namomroblema kay girlfriend. Nababasa n'ya kaya yung blog post mo? Don't be angry agad. Minsan ang galit lumalabas'yan dahil you don't trust her. Have faith in her. And I suggest that you initiate a call in some nights. Mahirap kasi kung siya na lang lagi tumatawag tapos ikaw naghihintay lang ng call from her.

    Be sweet. Be firm. And be the initiator.

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  11. very busy week nga pare hehehe...

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  12. oh yeah, have not see your blog updated for like a week.. no wonder, your PC was not working!! how sad it is to live a life without internet right?? i really can understand that.. anyway, welcome back!!

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  13. hmmm, why must you wait for her call?? if you feel like calling her to ask for her whereabout, then you can just give her a call.. in fact, don't take things for granted that it's always the same person's responsibility to initiate the call.. :)

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  14. wow, Jessica is so pretty!! the dress really make her look like a Princess.. errr, Disney theme, so was she Snow White, Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty?? hahaha~~

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  15. wow, you have been reading all these while when you do not have access to the internet?? hmmm, well, that may well be a good thing to do to kill the time.. you may find reading something fun..

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  16. have a great day and happy blogging.. hope you will be catching up with your bloghop after MIA for a week?? hehe~~ :p

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  17. sana ok na ang pc nyo! at okay na kayo ng gf nyo. baka nag papamiss lang kaya ganun. o kaya ikaw naman mag load tapos contact mo sya, baka naglalambing lang :)



    glad you're back - do keep us updated! happy kupilan nga pala! :)

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  18. Oh your computer broke down? That's horrible! Hope it's all fixed now!

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  19. Sorry to hear about you and your girlfriend. Maybe you should call her instead? But relationship is never easy. You gotta work at it. Good luck!

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  20. Wow! Your nieces and nephews all look so handsome and pretty! haha!

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  21. I have yet to read that book and watch the movie. Maybe will watch it someday. Don't think I have the time to read LOL!

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  22. Have a good week and Happy blogging! : )

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  23. I hate it should mylaptop broke down. Can't afford to do nothing without my laptop..

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    1. well, call her..maybe she's waiting for you.

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  24. happy birthday to jessica
    about hd sorry to know about it it happens.
    about your gf its natural you should be upset but may be she is testing you or she expected you will call her
    i will just say forget it small things keep happening

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  25. ang kyut ng niece mo hehe..

    Nagandahan na ko sa movie na I am number four. Masa maganda pa pala sa libro . Dapat mabasa ko yan .hehehe

    Well I guess relationship and love isn’t about being happy after all. <-- tama ka. May ups and downs tlga ang isang relasyon . Sabi nga nila para sa matatapang lang daw yan. Matapang para sa sakit , sa tiyaga , sa pang-unawa at pagmamahal :)

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  26. Congratulations on your confirmation. Hmmmm...still young, I guess not all relationships last forever. Time passes and people change... Just leave it to God and see what He has in His plans...

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  27. Your nieces and nephews are cutie pies! ♥ All things have ups and downs. But it eventually, everything will be okay.

    re: Still a bit tired. The pain on my feet and legs won't ebb.

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  28. Supercute ng mga prinsesa!~ I guess si Belle ng Beauty and the Beast yung birthday celebrant? Si Ykaie gustong maging si Sleeping beauty naman sa 7th birthday nya. Baka disney Princess din ang theme pag nag 7th bday. I've seen I am number 4 pero di ko nabasa ang book.

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  29. spend quality time na magkasama, vacation or dinner. babalik din ang spark ika nga ni Archieviner, naniniwala akong hindi nawawala ang pagmamahal :))

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  30. Your niece is sooooo pretty girl :)

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  31. haha... what a lucky little boy sitting in middle of these pretty girls :D

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  32. relationships are never easy. If there is no pain, worry, or times where you shake at an uncertain future, then it's not a reparations. Hope it goes well for you in the end.

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    1. not a relationship* reparations was one strange typo. Sorry.

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  33. Hi there!
    I'm sorry to hear about your girlfriend
    issue, I think if you want to work things
    out talk to her face-to-face. And be
    honest and tell her how you really felt.

    Awwww! You have a cute family, look at
    your cousins c: very cute!

    xx

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  34. ako rin mecoy, subrang busy tas nasira din yung computer ko kaya di ako makapagpost. buti ka pa at nakatapos ka na ng book. ako eh wala pang natatapos na basahing book. tamad kasi ako. hehe

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  35. Pretty hectic week indeed! Kaya niyo yan Mecoy, if you both want to keep the relationship then you can! ^◡^

    http://fashionmoto.blogspot.com

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  36. It was very I could've died laughing. x) Thank you!!

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  37. Beautiful photos! :) Your niece is so cute <333
    Also I would like to invite you to take part in my Giveaway. 25 winners will win $20 vouchers :)

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  38. hope you and you gf will be fine.. just talk to each other.. nicely..

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  39. I was 7 when I had my confirmation. I didn't know it was changed or just some reasons?

    You're having doubts against her.. hope this will turn out well soon between the two of you.

    Your PC might had overheated; multitasking and overloads of windows open, i.e., games and other softwares can crash when used simultaneously.

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  40. Drumstick! I love it too!! But I really mad for the hot fudge. I love it so much. c:

    I guess so. //sighs. It's difficult to like someone.

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  41. Maybe! :) You're using classic template right? I am using skins from blogskins.com and I just modify layouts from there c:

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  42. oh no...what a bummper...PC crsh like that

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    1. i guess not having internet connection is one of the worse thing ever

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    2. as for your gf...well, if she doesn't call you, mayb you can call/text her.

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    3. sure she will appreciate a short " Hi dear, have you reach home safely. miss you" text msg.

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    4. Your neices and nephews really cute. Adorable. Love her make up. Pink instead of fiery red. so sweet

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