Sunday, October 21, 2012

A Friend that got away


As a saying says Friends are the family we choose for ourselves which I really believe.They were the one to whom we tell our secrets, from them we ask advises, we trust them, we love them.Today I feel like sharing this tragic moment in my life tragic that up until now grieves me.I once had this friend named Adrianne Leoncio we are really close to each other, we go out a lot together almost everyday actually, we have the same type of taste at anything (even with girls). He is really the best friend I've ever had, he never fails to make us laugh, he is some sort of torch in our circle of friends he's the one that make us together as one the leader of the team Ican say. But sadly he's gone, gone for good gone for nothing its been almost 2 years since he died this exact day I can still remember how we shed tears for losin such precious person.

his death wasn't something we expected, I mean, it wasn't an accident, disease or what, its suicide. Well sometime love kills but he took it literally .Back then, he's been asking me out for maybe a week before he died but unfortunately I couldn't make it, because my brother is under observation due to he's flu(we thought its dengue) little do I know he is in serious depression(we advises him through phone though).Sadly before i make it up to him he did that ridiculous thing I won't go further to details because its really hard for me and also for the respect for him and his family. Up until now there's this one phrase he said that keeps boggling me,As we were walking we saw this two old man walking and out of nothing he told me "we'll be like that when we grow up":( I took it as a joke that time but now it is something that makes me reminisce how great the friendship we had truly are. I just want to thank him for all the laughter he brought in to my life and for the friendship that is worth forever to cherish. Where ever you may be, all I wish is for you be happy and please drop all the naughtiness  God wont be pleased by that haha and  lastly till we meet again.


his last post on Facebook

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  1. suituapuiOctober 21, 2012 at 1:28 PM

    So tragic. It is so heartbreaking to lose a loved one, and one so young at that. May he rest in peace.

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  2. OlivrOctober 21, 2012 at 1:40 PM

    i once lost a close friend too.

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  3. ZaiZaiOctober 21, 2012 at 2:28 PM

    Sad that you lost a friend, and I feel it's much sadder that it was because of suicide. But I'm sure he's at a much better place now. I'm sure he's happy how you remember him still as a good friend :)

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  4. Archieviner VersionXOctober 21, 2012 at 2:51 PM

    Sad T.T pls extend my condolence to his family and friends. May he rest in peace

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  5. wennOctober 21, 2012 at 3:48 PM

    so sad to lose a good friend. May he rest in peace.

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  6. denggoyOctober 21, 2012 at 5:35 PM

    Aw. Sabi nila, your bestfriend is your brother from another mother. Parang kapatid. May he rest in peace...

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  7. GracieOctober 21, 2012 at 6:48 PM

    Kadalasan kapag nawala ang isang tao, dun mo pa marerealize yung worth nya.. kung gaano sya kahalaga at kabuti sayo.. sad that you lost a friend parecoy..

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  8. KristenOctober 21, 2012 at 7:34 PM

    So heartbreaking. I feel like crying, seriously. >_< May Adrianne rest in peace.

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  9. JAOctober 21, 2012 at 10:09 PM

    Parang 17 lang nung nagpost pa siya sa fb tapos ilang days lang...



    Pwede ba malaman kung paano siya nag-suicide?

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  10. smOctober 21, 2012 at 10:55 PM

    sorry to know about your friend
    rest in peace

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  11. ReanaclaireOctober 21, 2012 at 11:00 PM

    So sad.. may he RIP...

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  12. MeowfieOctober 22, 2012 at 12:21 AM

    I normally browse post with a close heart and a locked sense of humanity,
    But this really touch me ...it was very genuine,
    I'm pretty sure he's happy you remember him :)

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  13. khantotantraOctober 22, 2012 at 2:42 AM

    depression can kill. Heard different stories about suicide.

    perhaps, masyadong kinimkim at dinibdib ng friend mo ang mga bagay-bagay and the only escape that he can think of is to take his own life.

    siguro, sa kabilang buhay, masaya na sya. no pain.

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  14. barbara l. haleOctober 22, 2012 at 6:23 AM

    I'm so sorry to hear about your friend's passing. Suicide is so hard to accept and deal with especially when it is someone you love and who is special to you. I know this because I have lost a friend to suicide. May your friend rest in peace and may you find peace to deal with it. Blessings!

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  15. AnonymousOctober 22, 2012 at 7:07 AM

    i lost a friend to at ang hirap. i know the feeling.

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  16. June | Life and SpicesOctober 22, 2012 at 7:29 AM

    the last few lines makes me sad when you saw the two old man.. hay, every single day is a precious time to spend with your love ones

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  17. UnknownOctober 22, 2012 at 10:19 AM

    may he rest in peace.

    mahirap pero alam kong kakayanin.

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  18. [SK]October 22, 2012 at 10:52 AM

    i am so sorry to hear that you have lost your best friend.. but i think he may not be physically there with you, but definitely he is always mentally beside you to support you all the way~~ :)

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    1. [SK]October 22, 2012 at 10:53 AM

      it must have been a tragic to hear of that news of his departure two years ago.. though i don't understand the tagalog he has posted in facebook, i guess that must just be an impulse that flashed across..

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    2. [SK]October 22, 2012 at 10:54 AM

      yeah, two old man walking together.. that is really what good friends really want right?? to be able to last long and still best friends till the end of time..

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    3. [SK]October 22, 2012 at 11:07 AM

      i think you should instead be more motivated to live a good life with the departure of your best friend, as this is what he would want to see in you from up above.. :)

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  19. SuperjaidOctober 22, 2012 at 2:32 PM

    *super tight* i don't know what to say but things happen for a reason. nawala man siya marami naman siyang alaalang iniwan.

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  20. Ishmael F. AhabOctober 22, 2012 at 9:55 PM

    What he did, by killing himself, is ridiculous (gaya ng sinabi mo). So sad that a young person died early. May he rest in peace with our Lord.

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  21. Teacher PogiOctober 23, 2012 at 12:12 AM

    *malalim na buntong hininga*

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  22. Small KucingOctober 23, 2012 at 1:20 AM

    yoh Mecoy. Dont dwell about it too much

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    1. Small KucingOctober 23, 2012 at 1:21 AM

      your post is making me worry. why suddeny bring that up?

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    2. Small KucingOctober 23, 2012 at 1:21 AM

      hope you are not having depression or anything like that

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    3. Small KucingOctober 23, 2012 at 1:22 AM

      think positive. Whether you be an old man or not, just take one step at a time

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  23. UnknownOctober 23, 2012 at 6:03 AM

    May he rest in peace. my deepest condolence to his family and to you as his closest friend

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  24. KristenOctober 23, 2012 at 1:14 PM

    RE: Thank you! Well, what I do in my internship now is just net surfing and read Fifty Shades of Grey. lol I just hope students will start to enroll so we have something to do na. ^^

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  25. xoxo_grahOctober 23, 2012 at 1:53 PM

    Oh my! Please send out my condolences to the family...you too...everything will be better soon...hey, I mentioned you on my blog..hope you'll find time to visit it...:)


    xx!

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  26. OrangeOctober 23, 2012 at 2:15 PM

    oh my... i remember 13 reasons why with this post. and i really don't know where you stand on this one. definitely, it is heart breaking. i understand how you feel.

    now, i know your friend is in a better place. may his soul rest in peace and never be depressed again.

    *hugs*

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  27. Ric / Life N CanvasOctober 23, 2012 at 2:17 PM

    So sad, i really feel so sad when I hear that kind of sad news. Yung nag-su-suicide. Depression talaga yan. Kailangan talaga ng ganyan kausap. Anyway, may he rest in real peace.

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  28. PhioxeeOctober 23, 2012 at 3:57 PM

    napaka sad naman. ;-(

    just me,
    www.phioxee.com

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  29. BalutOctober 23, 2012 at 5:21 PM

    so young... so soon...
    my prayers for the eternal repose of his soul...

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  30. KristenOctober 24, 2012 at 12:16 PM

    re: You could definitely say that. XD

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  31. AnonymousOctober 24, 2012 at 12:46 PM

    condolence po :(

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  32. Koh Kian FaiNovember 2, 2012 at 4:34 PM

    well . . .may he rest in peace and be strong mecoy . . . the world is beautiful and bless you work hard and go for it :)

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